So that would be an overview of the more recent past, but something is happening...something good.
If there is anything that has been coming to me over these last weeks and months it has been the theme of "the Love of God". And the contention point that has come up through this theme has been this...that I could hear the, "I love you" of God whenever He is speaking it. If there is one thing that I am continually being convinced concerning our human make up it is that we crave leadership and love from a source other than ourselves. We can often hold a very low opinion of ourselves by our awareness of our own short-comings. Thus we will at times notoriously seek for the affirmation of another. That a spouse, a friend, a leader, an institution, creed or religious choices would validate us and give some statement of intricate worth. Now obviously this can become very selfish and sinful, but I believe the desire is not sinful at all. That we are made by God to love and be loved deeply and continually. And here is why... because God Himself is Love and we were made in His image. Thus what God longs for we bear those same longings. Our bodies are not the only resemblance to His person, but also our emotions, hungers and desires as well.
"...and we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him. Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgement; because as He is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in love: but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment." - 1 John 4:16-18
Now here is the bread and butter of what I've felt the stirrings of the Lord in my heart over... He just wants me. If all of the above is true, meaning that I'm made to long for affirmation and love from another. And that I bear a holy resemblance to God Himself...His expectations are much different than I may have first thought. I was wanting to have trophies of my dedication and work so that Jesus and I would have something to talk about when He wanted to tell me how proud He was of me. (Hmm...) The unfortunate part was all of that "dream action plan" entirely relies on my ability to produce results. But if I double check the verse above God isn't results. He is love. Maybe more than my achievements, he's after a work of love inside of me that is actually a mirror reflection of Him. Now lets not dive off the end of saying that the works have no eternal or current value (See the latter half of James 2). But God wants me. I can't imagine my earthly dad (who loves me tons) would want all my championship trophies of all my life, over just having me in the same room with an open heart to him. How much more God Himself who loves perfectly?
All of the fear of failure, loss, rejection suddenly falls very quickly to the wayside. He is just looking for my attention, my heart to be on Him. All of the disciplines, trophies and even failed attempts are now not items (and I'm talking about the spiritual stuff too!). They're gifts of love to Him. I may have reached without perceived success, but I still give myself to Him or to what I felt I was called to do. Our value can't be found in these things. They pass, they break, they become obsolete to the present, but love...it is a force to be reckoned with that never grows irrelevant.
We satisfy God's joy by having our heart turned towards Him. This is how He teaches us obedience. When we touch the fact that we are treasures to Him, He becomes a treasure to us and we seek out the ways of His righteousness to grow in love.
I am not becoming a man fully capable of any situation in life and calling. That is quite secondary on God's agenda. I am called to be son with eyes that meets the gaze of my Savior.
"...you have ravished My heart with one look of your eyes..."
- Songs 4:9